Assertiveness does not need to be aggressive in nature. Slow down, contemplate, take a methodical approach. Take the time to not spill your tea.
Why let the bull into your china shop when you know where that leads. When the venom reaches your tongue, close your mouth. Breathe in, breathe out, give yourself a moment.
Perhaps another time, walk away until you calm yourself. Why allow anger and frustration the opportunity to build a barrier. It is far easier to leave the rocks where they lay.
Tailor your approach, trim away the excesses. Find your comfort in compassionate awareness. Be nice. Be kind. Hold the line still, your expectations steady.
Channeled message from Marie Antoinette, the last Queen of France. This is my second message from Marie, the first post is called Sanctified Unity, look it up. It’s good, you should read it.